How to hook your audience

How to hook your audience

Knowing where to start can be the hardest part of a communication.

Today I want to share tactics to help you grab your audience’s attention from the outset.

It seems to me we have a choice: to warm them up or wake them up.

Your situation and your personality will no doubt help you decide which approach suits your situation best.

Warm them up to lure them into your message

This is what I think of as the classic approach. You can do this two ways:

    1. Remind them of your topic. You might say something like:

      Last month we indicated that we need to reframe our product strategy to address emerging AI risks to software products like ours. Today we bring you our reframe strategy.

      This helps them recall your most recent conversation on today’s topic and why you are discussing it today.

    2. Inspire them with a memory. Perhaps there was a significant campaign that the organisation waged successfully or a program that ran really well. You could use that to engage them, perhaps like this:

      Think back to how strategy X worked so well to lift our customer base. We all pulled together and supported the campaign. We have an opportunity to win like that again.

     

    Wake them up to quickly get their attention

    There are lots of ways to do this, some of them potentially outlandish. Today I’ll share three that I hope are easy to employ without having to become someone you are not.

    1. Be positive. You might inspire them by helping them imagine a positive future, perhaps by saying something like this:

      We see our team cutting expenses by 10% each year for the next three years without culling headcount and despite inflation risks.

    2. Be negative. Sometimes it helps to begin with a problem that makes them sit up straight. You might explain how a problem they know about is now at a critical point, e.g.

      Project X continues to miss its targets despite pumping extra revenue into it over the past six months. We must today decide if we cut our losses and run or truly commit to making it work.

    3. Be provocative. Save this for do-or-die situations only, lest you be seen to cry wolf.

      Think back to how we rallied together to fix last year’s cyber attack. We drew out the best from everyone in the face of that do-or-die challenge. We need to pull together again with that intensity to face challenge X.

    I hope that helps. More soon.

    Davina

    Whenever you're ready, here are five other ways I can help you:

     

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    Engage, the self-paced course  – supports both individuals and leaders prepare more insightful papers and presentations for senior leaders and boards.

    Extreme Clarity, the 2-hour workshop – introduces techniques for structuring your messaging.

    Board Paper Bootcamp, the 2-week program – helps you clarify and convey complex ideas to senior leaders and boards.

     

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    About AUTHOR: DAVINA STANLEY

    I love what I do.

    I help senior leaders and their teams prepare high-quality papers and presentations in a fraction of the time.

    This involves ‘nailing' the message that will quickly engage decision makers in the required outcome.

    I leverage 25+ years' experience including

    • learning structured thinking techniques at McKinsey in Hong Kong in the mid 1990s before coaching and training their teams globally as a freelancer for a further 15 years
    • being approved to teach the Pyramid Principle by Barbara Minto in 2009
    • helping CEOs, C-suite leaders and their reports deeply understand their stakeholder needs and communicate accordingly
    • seeing leaders cut the number of times they review major papers by ~30% and teams cut the amount of time they take to prepare major papers by ~20%*
    • watching senior meetings focus on substantive discussions and better decisions rather than trying to clarify the issue

    My approach helps anyone who needs to engage senior leaders and Boards.

    Recent clients include 7Eleven, KPMG, Mercer, Meta, Woolworths.

    Learn more at www.clarityfirstprogram.com

     

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    How to use simplicity to drive success

    How to use simplicity to drive success

    A friend just sent me 10 wonderful quotes and I have cherry picked my favourite four that apply to clarity and simplicity.

    They all contain powerful truths.

    We all, I think, appreciate clarity and simplicity when we see it and can yet under estimate how hard it is to create.

    Before I share four of these quotes, let me ask you a question:

    What is your go-to strategy for finding clarity and simplicity in your work, especially your communication?

    What works for you?

    See if these help …

    “In a world deluged by irrelevant information, clarity is power”
    – Yval Noah Harar, historian and bestselling author of Saiens and Homo Deus

    “Simplicity boils down to two steps: Identify the essential. Eliminate the rest”.
    – Leo Babauta, author and founder of Zen Habits

    “When you are overwhelmed, the secret is to prioritize”
    – Oprah Winfrey, media exec

    “Complexity is seductive, but simplicity is powerful”.
    – Tim Ferris, entrepreneur and best selling author of The 4-Hour Work Week

    I hope that helps. More next week.

    Kind regards,
    Davina

    PS – One of the fun things about the world we live in, is that this now friend of mine introduced himself once he heard we had moved to Seattle. He had been reading my newsletter for years and then emailed to say ‘welcome'.

    Let me know if you are in Seattle area also. As the weather improves I am thinking of hosting a gathering.

     

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    My friend and colleague Christina Charenkova and I will discuss practical ways to get to the heart of what matters, engage your stakeholders, and build genuine support for your initiatives.

    We'll share proven techniques that have helped executives save significant time while increasing their impact – from cutting document preparation time by 20% to creating updates that spark meaningful discussions rather than endless clarifications.

    Whether you're leading a team through change or preparing Board papers, this conversation will help you communicate with clarity and purpose.

    Join us to discover how to make your message resonate and drive results.

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    I love what I do.

    I help senior leaders and their teams prepare high-quality papers and presentations in a fraction of the time.

    This involves 'nailing' the message that will quickly engage decision makers in the required outcome.

    I leverage 25+ years' experience including

    • learning structured thinking techniques at McKinsey in Hong Kong in the mid 1990s before coaching and training their teams globally as a freelancer for a further 15 years
    • being approved to teach the Pyramid Principle by Barbara Minto in 2009
    • helping CEOs, C-suite leaders and their reports deeply understand their stakeholder needs and communicate accordingly
    • seeing leaders cut the number of times they review major papers by ~30% and teams cut the amount of time they take to prepare major papers by ~20%*
    • watching senior meetings focus on substantive discussions and better decisions rather than trying to clarify the issue

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    Recent clients include 7Eleven, KPMG, Mercer, Meta, Woolworths.

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    How to get people to do things

    How to get people to do things

    Well, I am back home as you read this (just!) so have again prepared in advance.

    Following along the theme of using emotion when communicating, we come to getting people to ‘actually do things'!

    Storytelling Insight #3 – Nudging people toward action is, I think, where emotion can be more useful, especially in the face of resistance of some kind.

    Here are a couple of thoughts on that:

    When people need a strong push to do something, revert to the strongest persuasive levers which I discussed last week.

    Fears, big and small as well as belonging are the strongest motivators of all.

    This possibly explains why the Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is ‘quite a thing'. It blends both fear and belonging into the one bundle.

    When people need just a bit of a nudge, try a softer touch using aspiration, habits and analogies.

    1. Make it aspirational by pointing out the benefits of doing something.
    2. Make it easy by grafting a new idea or behaviour onto an old one.
    3. Make it clear by using analogies.

    I hope that helps. More next week.

    Kind regards,
    Davina

    PS – Clarity Hub members receive more actionable ‘how to' emails. Learn more here.

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    I love what I do.

    I help senior leaders and their teams prepare high-quality papers and presentations in a fraction of the time.

    This involves 'nailing' the message that will quickly engage decision makers in the required outcome.

    I leverage 25+ years' experience including

    • learning structured thinking techniques at McKinsey in Hong Kong in the mid 1990s before coaching and training their teams globally as a freelancer for a further 15 years
    • being approved to teach the Pyramid Principle by Barbara Minto in 2009
    • helping CEOs, C-suite leaders and their reports deeply understand their stakeholder needs and communicate accordingly
    • seeing leaders cut the number of times they review major papers by ~30% and teams cut the amount of time they take to prepare major papers by ~20%*
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    Fear motivates. Should you use it?

    Fear motivates. Should you use it?

    I am away on leave this week, so writing this email early to follow up on last week's discussion about story arcs and storytelling. Pop back and check your inbox for that note if you have not yet read it.

    Scott Adams in Win Bigly unpacks persuasion at a masterful level, so I thought I'd share some insights to help you.

    Storytelling Insight #2 – Intriguingly, he suggests that all three of the three most powerful persuasion levers are, or have the potential to be, fear-based.

    1. The top motivator is a big fear. This suggests that if we want our decision-makers to move, we need to find a way to scare them into it. Naturally, this needs to be done carefully!
    2. The next most-effective motivator can be positive: belonging. This can be tricky to navigate in relation to stakeholder management and group think. How to add value to the conversation without following the herd and, equally, not being kicked out of it?
    3. The third most-effective motivator reverts to fear, but in a smaller scale. My hunch is that smaller fears are easier to use at work. However, as with anything: not too often or you dilute the effect.

    The trick will be to get the tone just right. Going too far may come off as false and so become ineffective.

    I hope that helps. More next week.

    Kind regards,
    Davina

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    Elevate, the book helps leaders set their teams up to set up a new dynamic across their team that will elevate everyone’s skills, helping the team get better, faster decisions.

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    I love what I do.

    I help senior leaders and their teams prepare high-quality papers and presentations in a fraction of the time.

    This involves 'nailing' the message that will quickly engage decision makers in the required outcome.

    I leverage 25+ years' experience including

    • learning structured thinking techniques at McKinsey in Hong Kong in the mid 1990s before coaching and training their teams globally as a freelancer for a further 15 years
    • being approved to teach the Pyramid Principle by Barbara Minto in 2009
    • helping CEOs, C-suite leaders and their reports deeply understand their stakeholder needs and communicate accordingly
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    • watching senior meetings focus on substantive discussions and better decisions rather than trying to clarify the issue

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    Recent clients include 7Eleven, KPMG, Mercer, Meta, Woolworths.

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    Using emotion in storytelling

    Using emotion in storytelling

    I am now back in Seattle and ‘getting my head straight' again.

    Travelling to some far-flung clients over the past three weeks has been fun (if exhausting!) and given me lots of opportunity to read.

    I used my flying time to dive into Scott Adams' excellent book, Win Bigly, in preparation for the February Clarity Hub MasterClass on using logic and emotion in storytelling and business communication.

    I'd love to hear your experiences as I mull on this topic, and thought I'd share one insight today to share how my thinking is evolving.

    Insight #1 – Story arcs are well suited to high-stakes communication but less so for day-to-day business communication.

    _______________________

    Please email me and let me know of your experience … particularly if you disagree!

    _______________________

    Story arcs, where the communicator takes their audience through a hero's journey involving the ‘valley of death' that then leads toward a prize at the end are powerful. (See illustration below). Novelists and movie makers use these, and I see many communication experts talking about using them in a corporate setting too, particularly for sales pitches. The idea is that they engage an audience's emotions strongly, in a way that other communication might not.

    They are, however, I think limited in their day-to-day business use because they require an audience to hold on to the end to get the ‘big idea'. They ask the audience to sit on the edge of their seat, using suspense to make the big reveal at the end ‘feel' big.

    This is, in my experience, risky as corporate audiences are short on time and patience. Decision-makers want to get the gist of what you are saying quickly so you can all discuss and decide. Team members want to know what you want them to do so they can get on with it.

    So, I suggest saving story arcs for high-stakes situations where you are well supported by communication experts and structure your messaging elsewhere.

    I'll share other ideas for leveraging emotion in business communication during the coming weeks and in the February MasterClass too.

    I hope that helps. More next week.

    Kind regards,
    Davina

    Whenever you're ready, here are five other ways I can help you:

     

    Elevate, the book helps leaders set their teams up to set up a new dynamic across their team that will elevate everyone’s skills, helping the team get better, faster decisions.

    Engage, the bookhelps individual contributors prepare papers and presentations that leaders can approve without reworking.

    Engage, the self-paced course  – supports both individuals and leaders prepare more insightful papers and presentations for senior leaders and boards.

    Extreme Clarity, the 2-hour workshop – introduces techniques for structuring your messaging.

    Board Paper Bootcamp, the 2-week program – helps you clarify and convey complex ideas to senior leaders and boards.

     

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    I love what I do.

    I help senior leaders and their teams prepare high-quality papers and presentations in a fraction of the time.

    This involves 'nailing' the message that will quickly engage decision makers in the required outcome.

    I leverage 25+ years' experience including

    • learning structured thinking techniques at McKinsey in Hong Kong in the mid 1990s before coaching and training their teams globally as a freelancer for a further 15 years
    • being approved to teach the Pyramid Principle by Barbara Minto in 2009
    • helping CEOs, C-suite leaders and their reports deeply understand their stakeholder needs and communicate accordingly
    • seeing leaders cut the number of times they review major papers by ~30% and teams cut the amount of time they take to prepare major papers by ~20%*
    • watching senior meetings focus on substantive discussions and better decisions rather than trying to clarify the issue

    My approach helps anyone who needs to engage senior leaders and Boards.

    Recent clients include 7Eleven, KPMG, Mercer, Meta, Woolworths.

    Learn more at www.clarityfirstprogram.com

     

    (*) Numbers are based on 2023 client benchmarking results.